Oral Sex for Women. Apparently, it IS Rocket Science!

In speaking with my (female) friends about oral sex, one commonality becomes apparent: almost every man claims to be awesome at performing oral sex on women, but almost none of them live up to their claims.

There are so many reasons for this.

1. Men have absolutely no idea of how sensitive the clitoris is.

2. Men forget that their are other parts of the female genitalia besides the clitoris.

3. Men think you should jump right into oral sex before other forms of foreplay.

4. Men have no patience with oral.

5. Men do not understand those techniques that are most successful.

And it’s not like those junior high sex-ed lecture in health or gym class focused on how to please your sexy lady. You men have no oral sex education other than what your sexual partners give you.

I’m not altogether blaming men for these faults. Women often fail to indicate to men their preferences. We don’t want to be pushy and obnoxious and boss you around when your head is firmly wedged in our crotch. Women are not raised to be sexually assertive, much less aggressive. And men have delicate sexual egos. Sorry, but you do. Time to toughen up, because women generally LOVE oral sex, and most of you aren’t making the experience all it could be.

But I’m going to change all of that. Next article: Oral Sex Techniques Sure to Make Your Woman’s Eyes Pop Out of Her Skull!

About Us

I’ve been a woman for more than 30 years now, and I’ve been sexually active (on and off) for almost twenty years. I have twenty years of experience of having sex with men. In those twenty years, I have learned a lot about what I like, and what men seem to like. I’ve also learned a lot through trial and error.

But I have to say– it seems like a lot of men have more trouble with trial and error learning. Or they’re blissfully unaware that they have anything to learn.

Not all of them! Some men are obliging and eager to please. But others think they had an established technique that is tried and true, and they stuck with that.

Bad move.

I’ve heard some men say that sex is like pizza: even when it’s bad, it’s still good.

Wrong. For women, anyway.

Some of you men don’t care if we have a great time when we have sex with you. Some of you do.

This blog is for you guys who care if we get off.

Happy reading!